Upgrade builds to OpenSSL 1.1.1u.
Also updates _ssl_data_111.h from OpenSSL 1.1.1u, _ssl_data_300.h from 3.0.9.
Manual edits to the _ssl_data_300.h file prevent it from removing any
existing definitions in case those exist in some peoples builds and were
important (avoiding regressions during backporting).
(cherry picked from commit ede89af)
Co-authored-by: Ned Deily <nad@python.org>