Concurrent accesses from multiple threads to the same `cell` object did not
scale well in the free-threaded build. Use `_PyStackRef` and optimistically
avoid locking to improve scaling.
With the locks around cell reads gone, some of the free threading tests were
prone to starvation: the readers were able to run in a tight loop and the
writer threads weren't scheduled frequently enough to make timely progress.
Adjust the tests to avoid this.
Co-authored-by: Donghee Na <donghee.na@python.org>
This fixes a crash when `gc.get_objects()` or `gc.get_referrers()` is
called during a GC in the free threading build.
Switch to `_PyObjectStack` to avoid corrupting the `struct worklist`
linked list maintained by the GC. Also, don't return objects that are frozen
(`gc.freeze()`) or in the process of being collected to more closely match
the behavior of the default build.